by Sanya Bari | Dec 10, 2023 | Life Lesson, Relationship
beliefs run in the background of our consciousness, directing and controlling us in all matters big and small. The thoughts and feelings we keep allowing and entertaining in our consciousness begin to influence our behavior. The three of them together, thoughts,...
by Sanya Bari | Nov 22, 2023 | Life Lesson, Relationship
The next level of advancement in human development that will enable us to work on the wicked problems of tomorrow is no longer training in âskillsâ. The focus is on cultivating human excellence by learning to slow down your heart rate and connect to states of...
by Sanya Bari | Nov 11, 2023 | Life Lesson, Relationship
I was afraid of chaos. The chaos of a difficult conversation or confrontations or any situation where I didnât have control. As I got good at avoiding the chaos I did have the appearance of having it together, but with time what was unsaid, unfelt, and avoided kept...
by Sanya Bari | Oct 14, 2023 | Life Lesson
I`m not sure where the misunderstanding began but somehow, we got duped into giving our power and ability to heal what hurts us to those that hurt us. Itâs like: when I get hurt by someone/something, I feel the solution to not feeling that hurt anymore is that...
by Sanya Bari | Oct 13, 2023 | Uncategorized
What if you spent most of your life doing the âright’ things, giving it your all to complete the assumed âsuccuess check-list of lifeâ, in the hope that one day you will make it. One day you will be good enough, okay, complete, validated, successful, etc. What...
by Sanya Bari | Sep 21, 2023 | Life Lesson, Relationship
Itâs a harsh, yet delicate time, when you discover that you have been betrayed by someone you allowed into your heart. As if the depth of pain wasnât disorienting enough, unchallenged misbeliefs and predetermined stances cause more confusion and trauma by keeping you...
by Sanya Bari | Sep 16, 2023 | Uncategorized
The pain of betrayal hits hard. It violates a deeply sacred place within you. The only thing worse than being betrayed is getting trapped in the trauma for years, recycling the painful experience over and over again. Letting âwhat happened to youâ, become you. After...
by Sanya Bari | Sep 1, 2023 | Life Lesson
In my personal quest to create freedom and peace of heart and mind I kept coming across the idea of self-forgiveness; this baffled me. It was one thing to recognize and pardon the misgivings of others with forgiveness. Self-forgiveness, on the other hand, felt...
by Sanya Bari | Aug 25, 2023 | Life Lesson
For 15+ years of my life I was stuck experiencing my worst nightmares on repeat. No matter how hard I worked to control everything around me, I couldnât break free. In the thickness of a dark despair I made peace with death. It was like a superpower. I had nothing to...
by Sanya Bari | Aug 13, 2023 | Life Lesson
I was 12 years old, walking on the streets of London on a summer trip with my family when a dog came off the leash on the other side of the street. A commotion ensued with the dog-mom, a middle-aged woman, nervously chasing the dog in a fast-walk like fashion,...
