đź’” Why Healing Scared Me More Than the Pain

đź’” Why Healing Scared Me More Than the Pain

We assume the hardest part of healing is facing the pain. But for many of us—including me—what’s even harder… is facing what healing might cost us. I remember quietly thinking: If I actually heal… I’ll have to leave my husband. If I grow, my family won’t stand for it....
🌱 The Mother You Needed May Never Have Existed

🌱 The Mother You Needed May Never Have Existed

Mother’s Day can be beautiful. It can also quietly undo you. We celebrate mothers. And we grieve them. We thank them. And we ache for what they couldn’t give. For some, this day brings joy. For others, a quiet ache. For many, it brings both. Here’s what I’ve learned:...
The Truth About Closure (That No One Tells You)

The Truth About Closure (That No One Tells You)

How I Finally Broke the Cycle of Betrayal Let’s talk about something that gets people so hurt, even though it sounds like healing: Closure. Most people believe closure happens when you finally get to talk to the person you’re leaving. Like that conversation will give...