by Sanya Bari | Apr 6, 2025 | Uncategorized
How I Finally Broke the Cycle of Betrayal I kept asking myself: Why does betrayal keep finding me? No matter how much work I did—therapy, reflection, learning to communicate better—this same pain point kept showing up like clockwork. It didn’t matter how much I tried...
by Sanya Bari | Oct 13, 2023 | Uncategorized
What if you spent most of your life doing the ‘right’ things, giving it your all to complete the assumed ‘succuess check-list of life’, in the hope that one day you will make it. One day you will be good enough, okay, complete, validated, successful, etc. What...
by Sanya Bari | Sep 16, 2023 | Uncategorized
The pain of betrayal hits hard. It violates a deeply sacred place within you. The only thing worse than being betrayed is getting trapped in the trauma for years, recycling the painful experience over and over again. Letting ‘what happened to you’, become you. After...
by Sanya Bari | Sep 1, 2021 | Uncategorized
In episode 115 of The Couples Expert Podcast Stuart’s topic is Discernment Counseling with Sanya Bari from Mountain Lakes, New Jersey where she counsels couples in trouble. She works to help them look at their decisions in a new way that allows them to make a less...
by Sanya Bari | Feb 6, 2021 | Uncategorized
Whoever told us saying “no” is rude, wrong, mean, bitchy, and selfish caused a lot of harm. We caused even more damage when we believed it and followed it like a religion. When we say “no” to another person because that’s our truth, we are giving ourselves the...
by Sanya Bari | Nov 27, 2020 | Uncategorized
Hello My Love Tribe, I am feeling vulnerable right now as I share a very private story and personal lesson from my life. Life lessons are the most impactful. I must share this because I know how much my clients and people that have come into my life have been a part...