Last time, I shared how I finally found peace of mind and heart—
not by controlling life,
but by becoming someone I could trust.
But that peace didn’t last because I was suddenly floating through life.
It lasted because I started protecting my energy like it was sacred currency.
Because it is.
Carolyn Myss calls it being an energetic banker.
And it changed how I live.
Before that, I used to say yes when I meant no.
I’d listen to gossip I didn’t want to hear,
give time to people who drained me,
and over-explain myself just to keep the peace.
But peace doesn’t come from pleasing others.
It comes from protecting your soul.
So now, when someone says,
“Do you want to know what Julia and Anna were saying about you?”
a part of me—the curious, ego-driven part—wants the tea.
Wants to hear every detail, every expression.
But the part of me that wants peace says,
No thank you.
Because that energy? It’s not where I invest anymore.
Every year, I tell my clients—and myself—this:
Whatever you’re praying for, longing for, dreaming about…
a window is going to open. Once or twice a year, it will come.
But here’s the truth:
If you’re not someone who protects your energy in the micro-moments—
if you haven’t built self-trust that allows you to swipe away the thoughts
that don’t align with your deepest desire—
then you won’t have the energy to walk through that window when it opens.
And life won’t pause for you to catch up.
You’ll watch other people create what you once dreamed of.
You’ll feel regret.
You may even feel bitter.
But underneath it all, you’ll know:
You had the chance.
You just weren’t energetically available for it.
That’s what energetic debt does.
And when you’re in it, life still makes demands.
So you borrow. From your body.
(Hello, chronic inflammation, sleep issues, immune flares.)
Or from your relationships.
(You snap. Withdraw. Overgive.
Or quietly lose your connection with yourself.)
Not because you’re broken—
but because you’ve been investing your energy in what never deserved it.
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If you’re ready to stop missing the moments that were meant for you,
come join me in the Love Clarity Inner Circle.
We meet 4–6 times a month to protect what matters most:
your peace, your truth, your energy.