On this week’s episode of The Love Clarity Podcast, Sanya Bari—relationship trauma therapist and coach—challenges the cultural myth of being “too masculine” and reframes it through the lens of safety, survival, and emotional wisdom.
If you’ve ever been told you’re too strong, too independent, or not feminine enough, this conversation will gently reveal what’s really underneath those labels—and why the answer isn’t performance, but protection.
You’ll explore:
🛡️ Why control, leadership, and over-functioning are often trauma responses—not personality flaws
💔 How trying to be “more feminine” without safety leads to emotional self-abandonment
🌀 The truth about who you had to become to survive—and how to finally let her rest
🌸 What real safety feels like (and why it’s the natural pathway to softness and presence)
If you’re tired of performing peace while still feeling on edge inside—this episode will meet you with honesty, compassion, and clarity.
Take a breath.
You’re not broken. You’re adapting.
And now, you get to heal.
Ready to stop performing peace and start feeling it? Join the Love Clarity Inner Circle—where we trade emotional survival for embodied safety.