Relationships are messy.
For as long as I can remember I’ve had a desire to understand and untangle the confusion around relationships – I was trying to figure out what I need to know so I could create a relationship with the love, excitement, connection, and peace that I dreamed of.
Like all things that are worth doing – this too was neither easy nor glamorous. The schooling and the clinical experience were helpful – they deepened my interest and set the stage for what I could never imagine was coming for me.
Despite my perpetual interest in creating an extraordinary relationship for myself and my education in psychology – I failed miserably – I stepped into every relationship landmine that existed.
My interest in decoding relationships quickly transformed into a fervent mission when life kept sending me one opportunity after another in the boot camp called the real world.
It took absolutely everything I had to learn the lessons that would finally release me. Thankfully the release was just as sweet as the lessons were painful.
Despite some weak demoralizing moments, I did not throw in the towel – my hope that good relationships are possible turned out to be greater than my pain – so I remained vigilantly learning till I could find a way to crawl out to the light.
I didn’t choose this work — It chose me.
It’s clear to me . . . my life experiences were my true education.
I realized that a lot of what I went through could have been avoided if I knew what I know now.
My love for this work has become my passion – my journey has become my mission.
I am thankful for each of those challenges because they have brought me to the place within my Self that I enjoy, savor, and cherish today.
I was being groomed and bread so I can find my way to healing my Self.
As I have the answers to the many dead-end questions I had — it’s like there’s a fire lit in me.
I can not wait to support motivated people to transform the default life we are programmed for and instead create the life experience they have always wanted.
I can not wait to share what I wish I knew about creating a fulfilling life, love, and relationships.