What if the reason you’re stuck isn’t because they won’t change—but because you’re still hoping they will?
In this piercing and tender episode, Sanya Bari—relationship trauma therapist, coach, and survivor—explores the quiet heartbreak of loving someone’s potential more than their reality. Through a client story and her own past, she reveals the hidden cost of waiting for change that may never come.
Because when we fall in love with who they could be…
We lose who we are.
You’ll hear:
💔 The sentence that reveals you’re loving a fantasy, not a person
🧠 Why waiting for someone to change becomes an act of self-abandonment
🌱 How to let go of “someday” and return to the self you left behind
This episode is for anyone who’s been holding on, shrinking themselves, or over-giving—waiting for a partner to meet them in a love that never arrives.
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