On this week’s episode of The Love Clarity Podcast, Sanya Bari—relationship trauma therapist and coach—unpacks a hard but healing truth: sometimes, what we call loyalty is actually self-betrayal in disguise.
If you’ve ever stayed in a relationship, job, or role out of duty, guilt, or identity—this conversation will hold up a gentle mirror and ask: “What is it costing you to keep being loyal?”
You’ll explore:
💔 Why “I don’t quit on people I love” can become a quiet form of self-abandonment
🌀 How generational trauma confuses endurance with worth
👁️ The difference between loyalty rooted in love vs. loyalty rooted in fear
🌱 What it takes to turn back toward yourself without burning everything down
If you’ve been over-giving, over-staying, or over-functioning in the name of love, this episode will help you pause and re-align.
Because true strength isn’t in staying or leaving—it’s in healing the part of you that hurts when you feel unloved or unseen.
Take a breath.
You’re not broken.
You’re awakening.
And now, you get to choose you.
✨ Ready to untangle the invisible knots of loyalty and return to clarity? Join the Love Clarity Inner Circle—where we practice love that doesn’t cost us ourselves.