LOVE ISN’T SUPPOSED TO HURT. BUT IF IT KEEPS BREAKING YOU, THIS PODCAST IS FOR YOU.
Learn to love deeply—without losing yourself.
Tired of love feeling like a battlefield? It doesn’t have to be this way. I’ll show you how to heal, set boundaries, and love deeply—without losing yourself.
🔥 New Episodes Every Wednesday @ 5 AM ET
LOVE ISN’T SUPPOSED TO HURT. BUT IF IT KEEPS BREAKING YOU, THIS PODCAST IS FOR YOU.
Learn to love deeply—without losing yourself.
Tired of love feeling like a battlefield? It doesn’t have to be this way. I’ll show you how to heal, set boundaries, and love deeply—without losing yourself.
🔥 New Episodes Every Wednesday @ 5 AM ET
WHO THIS PODCAST IS FOR
- Why do I keep attracting toxic relationships?
- Why does love always feel painful?
- How do I rebuild trust after betrayal?
- Why do I feel trapped, even in relationships that seem “good” on the outside?
✨ You’re not crazy. You’re not broken. You’re just stuck in a cycle that was never yours to begin with. This podcast will help you break free.
WHO THIS PODCAST IS FOR
- Why do I keep attracting toxic relationships?
- Why does love always feel painful?
- How do I rebuild trust after betrayal?
- Why do I feel trapped, even in relationships that seem “good” on the outside?
✨ You’re not crazy. You’re not broken. You’re just stuck in a cycle that was never yours to begin with. This podcast will help you break free.
MEET YOUR HOST – SANYA BARI
Sanya Bari is a relationship trauma therapist, coach, keynote speaker, author, and a survivor of relationship trauma.
She is the founder of the Love Clarity Method, the Wise Loving Tribe Membership, and The School for Transformational Healing.
With a unique blend of science and compassion, Santa has helped over 1K individuals—including federal judges, Olympic athletes, and executives—heal when it felt impossible, save marriages, rebuild trust, and create deeply fulfilling relationships. Known for her engaging, actionable approach, Sanya equips audiences with tools to turn emotional pain into clarity, connection, and lasting transformation.
MEET YOUR HOST – SANYA BARI
Sanya Bari is a relationship trauma therapist, coach, keynote speaker, author, and a survivor of relationship trauma.
She is the founder of the Love Clarity Method, the Wise Loving Tribe Membership, and The School for Transformational Healing.
With a unique blend of science and compassion, Santa has helped over 1K individuals—including federal judges, Olympic athletes, and executives—heal when it felt impossible, save marriages, rebuild trust, and create deeply fulfilling relationships. Known for her engaging, actionable approach, Sanya equips audiences with tools to turn emotional pain into clarity, connection, and lasting transformation.
PODCAST EPISODES:
🎙️ EPISODE 25: The Moment You Choose You
On this week’s episode of The Love Clarity Podcast, we’re talking about the moment you finally choose yourself. For so long, you’ve tried to be lovable by shrinking, over-functioning, apologizing for your needs. But there comes a point where the ache of performing...
🎙️ Episode 24: The Part of You You’re Ashamed Of? That’s the Part That Holds the Key
On this week’s episode of The Love Clarity Podcast, we’re talking about the part of you you’re most ashamed of — and why it’s not the problem you think it is.Not the polished part. Not the performing part. But the one you still reject. The one you haven’t forgiven...
🎙️ Episode 23: How to Stop Obsessing Over Someone Who Hurt You
You left. You blocked them. You’re not going back.So why can’t you stop thinking about them? This episode gently unpacks what obsession really is —not love, not weakness, but a nervous system still frozen in pain that never felt safe enough to end.I’ll walk you...
🎙️ Special Episode: Coming Home To Your Body with Kausar and Doucky
For this special episode of The Love Clarity Podcast, we’re not talking about weight loss… We’re talking about coming home to your body—and what happens when you stop chasing a number and start choosing yourself. My guests are Kausar and Doucky, co-founders of...
🎙️ Episode 22: Are They Confused… or Just Controlling?
On this week’s episode of The Love Clarity Podcast, we’re talking about something that looks like indecisionbut feels like emotional whiplash: Are they confused… or are they just controlling you? At first, it sounds innocent:“I’m not ready”“I just need...
🎙️ Episode 21: The Narcissistic Cycle of Idealize, Devalue, Discard
On this week’s episode of The Love Clarity Podcast, I’m talking about a cycle that feels like magic at first but slowly shatters your sense of self: The narcissistic cycle: idealize, devalue, discard. It starts with intense connection.They say you're their...
🎙️ Special Episode: Unlearn The Scripts That Keep Us Stuck with Monica Tanner
For this special episode of The Love Clarity Podcast, I sat down with Monica Tanner—relationship coach, podcast host, and author of Bad Marriage Advice—for a vibrant, eye-opening conversation about the myths we inherit about love… and the quiet ways they keep us...
🎙️ Episode 20: Is It Love or Is It Emotional Abuse?
On this week’s episode of The Love Clarity Podcast, Sanya Bari—relationship trauma therapist, coach, and survivor—dives into one of the hardest questions you can ask yourself in love:“Is this really love… or is it emotional abuse?” There are no bruises. No yelling. No...
🎙️ Episode 19: The Difference Between Loyalty and Self-Betrayal
On this week’s episode of The Love Clarity Podcast, Sanya Bari—relationship trauma therapist and coach—unpacks a hard but healing truth: sometimes, what we call loyalty is actually self-betrayal in disguise. If you’ve ever stayed in a relationship, job, or role out of...
🎙️ Episode 18: You’re Not “Too Masculine.” You Don’t Feel Safe.
On this week’s episode of The Love Clarity Podcast, Sanya Bari—relationship trauma therapist and coach—challenges the cultural myth of being “too masculine” and reframes it through the lens of safety, survival, and emotional wisdom. If you’ve ever been told you’re too...
🎙️ THE LOVE CLARITY PODCAST IS HERE. READY TO HEAL?
✨ Reclaim your self-worth.
✨ Love deeply—without losing yourself.
🎙️ THE LOVE CLARITY PODCAST IS HERE. READY TO HEAL?
✨ Reclaim your self-worth.
✨ Love deeply—without losing yourself.