Create your best life & love scorecard quiz page Step 1 of 4 25% My guilt can be so strong and ruminating that sometimes I do things just to shut off or quiet the constant mocking chatter.(Required) Yes No I believe that if I keep reminding myself of the mistakes I have made I am more likely not to repeat them.(Required) Yes No Many times I don’t want to do something for someone, but I don’t say ‘no’ because I don’t want to deal with how guilty I will feel if I don’t.(Required) Yes No I stay on top of the game by being so self-critical that I can see and fix my mistakes before others catch them.(Required) Yes No People closest to me complain that I criticize them too much, but I do it because I love them.(Required) Yes No If someone I love doesn’t do for me as much as I do for them I remind them of how much ‘I’ have done for them.(Required) Yes No I speak to myself in a critical, commanding, demanding, and sometimes mean voice, like a boot-camp counselor.(Required) Yes No I don’t like people who don’t go out of their way for others.(Required) Yes No I don’t like it when people are selfish about their own happiness above others.(Required) Yes No Section Break Change scares me. I would rather stay in the comfort of the familiar than try something I know nothing about.(Required) Yes No If someone’s idea or belief is different from mine or if they oppose my point of view, I feel attacked and I defend myself.(Required) Yes No I’m not really happy with my life, but is it okay because I have noticed neither is anyone else.(Required) Yes No If I change then I will have to leave the people I am with right now and change the situations I am in now.(Required) Yes No I don’t like confrontations so I end up putting up with or ignoring bad behavior.(Required) Yes No People think I am scared, rigid, or indecisive, but I am just being careful. and smart.(Required) Yes No I primarily base my life decision on information I get from others and my world, and not by becoming quiet and checking within.(Required) Yes No I tend to over think and I can be indecisive.(Required) Yes No I don’t like to be alone with myself.(Required) Yes No Section Break If someone hurts me, they have to change or make amends before I can feel better.(Required) Yes No People that are close to me have told me that I can be controlling but I do what I do because I love them.(Required) Yes No In social situations I try my best to make sure everyone feels included and has a good time.(Required) Yes No If I care about someone, I go out of my way to make sure they do what is good and right for them.(Required) Yes No If someone I love has a problem I will do everything I can to resolve it whether they ask me for help or not.(Required) Yes No I believe if people care about me they should know what to do for me without me asking.(Required) Yes No I have so much to do for so many people that I love that I never have time to do anything for myself.(Required) Yes No I give the ones I love guidance even when they say they don’t want it.(Required) Yes No Others never do for me as much as I do for them.(Required) Yes No Section Break If someone I love needs me I drop what I am doing for myself to help them.(Required) Yes No I keep waiting for the ‘next’ stage of my life to finally bring me the relief I have been waiting for.(Required) Yes No People close to me tell me that I should ask for what I want and/or say ‘no’ to the things I don’t like, but I don’t like confrontations.(Required) Yes No I don’t enforce my boundaries; I feel if someone loves me then they should remember my boundaries.(Required) Yes No I believe a part of loving others is to give priority to their well-being and happiness above mine.(Required) Yes No I sacrifice what I want for those I love even when I don’t want to.(Required) Yes No I put up with a lot of things I really don’t want to. It’s my way of loving others.(Required) Yes No If someone loves me, they will put my desires and happiness above their own. Yes No I take care of so much that it's hard for me to keep the commitments I make to myself.(Required) Yes No
